Husband has been searching for a fuck buddy

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We have a toddler. I don't know what to do.

Hand hold.

How have you found this out?

hand hold.

What a horrible man :-(

How did you find out?. How did he react to this new found knowledge?

Is he still in the property with you?. I would be asking him to move out to give you some space.

I haven't confronted him yet. I'm a bit numb. I searched his phone (wrong I know) but I had suspicions of excessive porn use so looked and found more than I bargained for. It doesn't look like he's signed up though. Though there are google searches for 'fuck buddy' and a whole load of live cam sex sites too.

Our toddler is downstairs giggling with him now. It's going to break my heart to split her away from him.

Screen shot everything and send it to your phone/email. Or it'll vanish and be denied. What a twat!

I've taken photos so they are all on my phone.

Fingers crossed he was just looking and never acted on anything. Although the fact he was looking in the first place would be enough for me to end things as it shows he's been fantasising about cheating.
Has he definitely googled things like 'fuck buddy' or could it possibly be a pop up page from porn he's been watching?
Either way it sounds like he's someone who can't be trusted and someone who has a porn addiction. Sending you hugs

He can still parent his child and be part of her life when you are apart from him.

I have 28 screenshots each with 7 different webpages. My initial thought was pop up ads but it def seems more than that but not actually signing up. Though it does look like he's watched live sex cams.
He's acting like it's a normal Sunday morning.

Ffs go and talk to him show him the screen shots so he can't deny it.

Live sex cams can often be pop ups on porn. On the odd occasion I watch it I get lots of pop ups on my phone from various women with things like 'click here to watch me live now'. Could he have clicked on one by mistake as I sometimes have when I'm trying to scroll through things. He'd have to sign up and pay to watch a live sex cam show I think. Can you see if random amounts like £5 have been going from his bank account at odd times of the evening?

How do I put a photo up on here?

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Those look like porn spam pop ups to me, I don't have an issue with porn and occasionally DP forgets to shut down the pop up windows in the laptop. They are invariably telling you there are milfs in your area who want no strings fucks, advertising a new social media site for hookups/fuck buddies or pop up 'live' sexcam shows. They come up in history despite browsing on an incognito window. It may just be spam so don't go in all guns blazing. If you feel unsure do a bit more snooping before you say anything to your DH, but in all likelihood he has just been masturbating to porn and doesn't understand technology.

Also looks like pop up spams to me. I just clicked on the porn site I sometimes use to see what pop ups came up. Within 30 secs I had one with a picture of a woman masturbating saying 'fuck buddies available within a 30 mile radius of you'.
They are usually just virus riddled spam bullshit and cost a fortune to sign up to.
How do you feel about him watching porn if that's all it is? If it's upsetting you then you still need to discuss it with him asap

Are you looking at his search history or browsing history?

If he's searched for them then he's guilty as hell and you can't trust him but Fuck Buddy & Cam sites are frequent pop ups at porn and file sharing sites so if its his browsing history that you're looking at then he may not have actually chosen to visit those sites.

Either way it doesn't sound like you are comfortable with his porn use.

On the second screen shot it looks like he's googled for a fuck buddy?
That's an awful lot of pop ups though which is what makes me unsure. I have 28 of those photos!

Looking at his history.

These look like genuine live cams to me.

Sorry op, I just googled 'looking for a fuck buddy' on my phone and the second picture is pretty much what came up! Did you look at his search history?

I meant the second picture of the first two, you must have posted the other as I was posting. Is it his viewing history or search history? Can you check bankingblike someone suggested?

Doesn't look good and I'd have to ask him about it....then again it could be curiosity or something else completely! My search history now shows looking up 'fuck buddies'

*banking like

Yeah he's been viewed several models on that cam site you can see each of their user names RuddyLovely, S3r3ndipity etc.

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