Boyfriend texted his ex don't know what to think !

[Mcilveen1979]

My bf texted his ex that he missed her they haven't been together for years but have a children together,
We've been together 6 months and are really happy I've had no reason to think he does want her or anything was going on, I've seen the messages and nothing suggests this it was just one random text when he was drunk !! He says sorry but don't know why he did it!
I don't know what to think and can't stop thinking about it x

Why don't you know what to think, he misses his ex, that's what to think? He got dunk and told her so. As such he is not over her or not that into you. I'm sorry op, but that's really it in a nutshell. Doesn't mean she remotely misses him or is interested in him though.

You've only been together 6 months, cut your losses and get out while it's still relatively easy to do so.

So disrespectful to you and your relationship.

Run for the hills....he's not over her.

Very disrespectful to you ! I'd be gone it's the most hurtful thing too and ex :( you can do million times better cx

Was there just one message ?

Yep, dump and run.

What bluntness said who has the best fitting name ever

You're supposed to still be in the honeymoon period. If he's texting other women already (and not sexual texts, but emotional texts) there's only one way this is going to end. What's he going to be doing when the excitement of a new relationship wears off?

Save yourself more heartache later down the line and knock him on the head.

I agree with the others. He's not over her. Nobody would send a text like that to an ex they didn't have feelings for. Sorry. I'd call it a day x

For me it wouldn't matter if he received a text saying she missed him. The fact he's saying he misses her, in turn that means he wants her on some level, for me that crosses a line. Either he's commited or he's not. And yours clearly isn't. Sorry op

For me it wouldn't matter if he received a text saying she missed him. The fact he's saying he misses her, in turn that means he wants her on some level, for me that crosses a line. Either he's commited or he's not. And yours clearly isn't. Sorry op

You don't know what to thonk ?

Are you a bit dim ? He wishes he was still with his ex. Retrieve your self respect from where you buried it and tell this jerk to take a hike.

*think

Clearly he still has feelings for her, I would get out now before you get any more involved

Get out now. It's only been 6 months.

He's just not that into you. . .
Find someone worthy of you. .

Op, I guess you know what to think now,,,

The question is what shall you do about it?

It's remarkable how easily alcohol reveals the truth. End it now because you're just wasting your time.