Last minute problem with child care. I asked a friend to step in, said really no problem if you can't, I'll go to plan C. She said yes, no problem.
I went to work. XH spoke to friend, next thing I know he texts me to say, it's not convenient for friend, so I'll take DD.
AIBU to be annoyed with XH changing my plans? And upset with friend - although he could well have put pressure on her in such a charming way she didn't even notice...
And if I text friend to say I'm sorry you didn't feel you could tell me it's inconvenient, is that ok or will it come across as passive aggressive?
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CharlotteCollinsneeLucas · 16/05/2017 18:33
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