Meet the Other Phone. Flexible and made to last.

Meet the Other Phone.
Flexible and made to last.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Right! I have a date....

7 replies

staryeyes00 · 20/04/2017 19:27

....and I am emotionless. I don't mean to be. I have been single a very long time and with every year that's past I have just lost the passion, excitiment, the hope of finding 'the one' haha!
I am wondering how many dates should you go on before you feel something. I never ever ever feel anything. It's not that I'm fussy it's just being on my own so long. I get easily irritated and then I feel a annoyed with myself for judging too quickly......

OP posts:
SparklingRaspberry · 20/04/2017 19:31

Everyone is different but for me personally the spark is either there or it isn't. It doesn't grow or develop.

Not much advice I'm afraid but just go with your gut and see how you feel during and after the date

Good luck! Smile

staryeyes00 · 20/04/2017 19:32

Thankyou ☺ I have been told it can develop. It's just Internet dating we judge too quickly?

OP posts:
highinthesky · 20/04/2017 19:32

It's not the quantity, it's the quality...!

Keep an open mind though, as you say you've probably just lost your dating mojo. Good luck.

TheNaze73 · 20/04/2017 19:33

No spark on date 1, no sexual attraction? I'd make my excuses & that would be that.

staryeyes00 · 20/04/2017 19:34

I have lost my mojo! Hoping to find it again, thankyou 😊
I don't ever feel a spark though. Like ever!

OP posts:
DevelopingDetritus · 20/04/2017 19:40

I wouldn't dismiss after a first date, some things take time to grow.

UpYerGansey · 20/04/2017 20:43

The first date is an interview. If you come away feeling intrigued, it's on to date 2. Date 2 is the teller.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread