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last bit of control...

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Dawndonnaagain · 17/04/2017 16:26

is making me wait for stuff, unnecessarily so. Knowing of course that it bothers me. He was asked (by solicitors) weeks ago, for lists etc. Heard nothing. I know it's deliberate. Grrr!

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Rainybo · 17/04/2017 17:03

I feel for you, my STBXH does this. If I text something about DD he will not respond until the next day. It's a headfuck and like you, I also get quite anxious, so it is a control thing.

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Dawndonnaagain · 17/04/2017 18:27

It's grim isn't it. He knows I want to move away. DC are adults. He knows the longer it takes the more soul destroying and expensive it is for me. It is all about control. Git!

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