First dates

[M0nica]

I wear a wig, I shave my natural hair because It's patchy & frizzy & weird.
Obviously my kids/exh/mum knows but its fairly realistic looking.
When would you tell someone new youre dating?? And will they be really put off

Ooh no advice but I have alopecia and in similar situation so watching this!! Good luck OP!

Tell them when you feel ready & are comfortable

I'd be up front and honest - say you have problems with your hair and so wear a wig as it improves your confidence. If your date has a problem with it, red flag and ditch. I'd rather find out early if he does judge you for something as small as that... He's not worth it in my book. Good luck! X

As others have said, if you're comfortable with someone and you feel at ease then I'd tell them then. The old adage, those who mind don't matter and those who matter dont mind, I think speaks volumes here. Good luck with everything x