so i have my own LO (and i am so thankful to have her!) but i have a friend who got pregnant straight away (she was drinking / partying so not taking care of herself). im struggling to deal with this as a) i didnt get pregnant straight away and b) she was unsure about even having kids. since she told me ive kept my distance from her as i have feelings of resentment. anyone have any advice of how i can deal with my feelings? anyone gone through the same thing?