Really need hand holding, together 8 years discovered tonight he's been seing someone else as well for the last two, she found out about me, dumped him and he confessed, said it was only a month but she has since got in touch and filled me in. He's then confessed it was longer. Such an idiot, what the hell do I do? Kicked him out obviously, but can't afford rent on my own, we've got dogs and cats this is such a mess. Explains his reluctance to get married though..