Have just got a new job in another part of the country, and plan to rent a new place with children and take them with me, leaving P in the family home. In the meantime though - I am sick of his nasty angry outbursts. Twice today - once because I used some milk (i bought) to put on the children's cereal, when we were low on milk (he tried to snatch it out of my hand, had a big shout and then stormed off, and tonight, because my 18month old started crying when he saw me, as p was trying to put him to bed he shouted, 'this is why I hate parenting with you' all in front of the kids again. I feel ill with his agression towards me, interspersed with normality. Perhaps I'm oversensitive, but I've got constant swollen glands and tight chest. I think it's the stress.