Well he's not really an ex, we worked together for 6 months and had a very brief affair over 10 years ago when I was 20 and he was 40. I'm not proud of myself nor do I condone cheating. I was single, he wasn't. I was young and wanted something exciting.
Anyway, we hadn't spoken for a very long time but we re-connected through Facebook last year. Nothing untoward as I am very happily married and have a child and he is also married (to the woman he cheated on with me).
We've chatted a few times over the phone about where life has taken us and what we've been up to and he had wanted to meet for coffee but we never agreed a date or time.
Anyway, he was due an operation on his heart, then his wife took him on holiday, then his FIL sadly passed away leaving them his house which they were moving into before Christmas, so I hadn't spoken to him for a few weeks. Which has now turned into months with my texts seemingly being ignored.
I am really worried something has happened to him. Either his wife has found out what happened all those years ago and the shit has hit the fan, or his op didn't go well and he's dead.... I tried calling yesterday but his mobile seems to be switched off.
I know all this seems a little crazy, and I honestly don't know what I expect to happen, but I can't help wondering what's happened to him!
What would you do?