My DH and I have been married 2 and a half years and have 3 DC. The youngest is 8 months old. Getting pregnant was hard and the pregnancy was even harder. Needles to say sex had become a quick thing once a week. Not for lack of wanting but more because of life/kids/work. That's the background done.
DH works as a doorman at a pub in another town. It's about and hours drive but if he's taking others with him it can be up to two hours before he gets home. He is the kind that will drop people at their front door. He used to get home around 3am most weekends but the past few weeks it's been closer to 5am.
He has also started talking about a regular at the pub. She's about 10 years younger the. DH but she has apparently take a shine to him. She's there every Friday and Saturday night now. She has openly admitted she finds him attractive and is now deliberately walking past to talk to him on her way home from work before returning with her friend for drinks. She's taken to sitting near the door and talking to him most of the night when it's quiet.
DH has started talking about her a lot more recently and I'm worried. I know our sex life is suffering at the moment but it's not for lack of wanting. Do I really have a reason to be worried or am I just overthinking things?