Meet the Other Phone. Child-safe in minutes.

Meet the Other Phone.
Child-safe in minutes.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Please help

26 replies

xxdriftwoodxx · 05/03/2017 23:36

I was with my partner for two years after I found out our sexless relationship was a sham as he was meeting men dressed as women for oral sex. We separated then got back together months later.
We sought relationship and sex therapy but I felt it was pointless as I felt if he's not interested in me there's no forcing him.
We get on really well but he has to meet his mates at the pub 3 times a week on Wednesday, Friday and Sunday every week.
I hate this routine of his,
Am I being selfish or am I realising it's time to walk away.
He is a lovely guy the nicest bloke you could meet but I feel I'm more his sister than anything else.
Advice please xxx

OP posts:
sameoldscene · 07/03/2017 13:26

I suspect you can't believe he doesn't want you! You are probably the type of female who had no problem atttracting men. You've decided you'd quite like this man too. Only you can't...
He is gay - leave him be.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page