Please advise

[Belle2828]

Please advise on this situation ,too tired to think about sex....
At the moment Iam having numerous tests for conditions like MS lumber punctures MRIs etc.As I am feeling dreadful all the time and so exhausted. I have other health conditions too.I have been with partner seven years and lately all I am getting from him is how dreadful it is because he isn't getting regular sex...this is because I feel so poorly I ve not felt like it . It's getting to the point where I don't want to talk to him as it's always the same topic of conversation...it's draining.

Thanks I've just took my son for walk and I felt like I've had a weight lifted off my shoulders.I haven't got the inevitable endless explanation why I don't feel like it or the put up and shut up scenario .It feels like I'm free... Does that sound daft? And can concentrate on me and ways I can feel better...guess this was one of them :)

Nobody NEEDS sex EVER! - wrong.

He isn't highly sexed - also wrong.

he's being a petulant uncaring bully OP - very true

Why cant he just have a wank - cause its different

You are not just a fuck hole ffs - absolutely totally the point.

I am glad you have been able to act and start your healing OP. He was pushing you down and not helping your health. People can be and are highly sexed and can often totally overlook the needs and concerns of other people where there is no respect in the relationship and that is what is damaging. He didnt care for you and that is good reason for ending it. Good luck OP.