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Its over

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LovelyUnicorn83 · 05/03/2017 10:41

My partner of 3.5 years ended it with me last night because I dont want another babySad

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LovelyUnicorn83 · 12/03/2017 12:45

Nothings changed but now its a reality

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RandomMess · 12/03/2017 12:51

Sad presumably you are planning to arrange a termination as quickly as possible?

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LovelyUnicorn83 · 12/03/2017 12:55

No i wouldnt terminate. Suppose i need to tell my ex.

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RandomMess · 12/03/2017 12:57

Yes you do then.

I think you are going to be in for an emotional rollercoaster. I hope all turns out well, I think the sooner you tell him the better as it sounds like it could change your relationship status Flowers

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LovelyUnicorn83 · 12/03/2017 13:00

Confused i need to digest the news first. Hes coming to collect some things tonight if im ready i'll tell him then

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oleoleoleole · 12/03/2017 13:40

The hand of fate!

supercue · 12/03/2017 13:59

What outcome are you hoping for OP?

I'm not sure what I would feel in your place.

Toobloodytired · 12/03/2017 14:05

That was certainly a turn of events! Blush

How do you feel about the positive test op??

Smellofpaint · 12/03/2017 14:13

Presumably he won't be your ex more as you will be having the child he wants?

Smellofpaint · 12/03/2017 14:13

any more sorry

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LovelyUnicorn83 · 12/03/2017 17:07

Sorry im late in replying dd has been at a party. I think im still reeling i was a bit tearful before i think it will take time to digest it. My ex is coming round in an hour

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Paperdoll16 · 12/03/2017 17:45

Good luck OP. Maybe it was meant to be?!

Were you using contraception then? ❤️

Elland · 12/03/2017 18:00

Good luck OP Cake

PollytheDolly · 12/03/2017 18:27

Good luck xx

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LovelyUnicorn83 · 12/03/2017 20:20

Hello. I told him. I actually thought he was going to cry with happiness. He asked where this left us and i told him i didnt want to split in the first place. Hes going to stay at his sisters tonight again and were going for tea tomorrow to talk away from the kids.

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Rarity75 · 12/03/2017 20:54

That's a nice update lovely, I know another baby isn't what you wanted. I hope you come through this stronger and are happy when your new LO arrives Flowers

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LovelyUnicorn83 · 12/03/2017 20:57

Suppose i'll have to be Rarity. I know the baby will be loved theres no doubt about that

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SleepingTiger · 12/03/2017 21:35

I suppose that's kind of congratulations then....Smile

PollytheDolly · 13/03/2017 04:13

FlowersFlowers

MoominMamma3 · 13/03/2017 09:12

I hope the talk goes well OP, you must be feeling a lot of emotions Flowers

tropicalwaterdiver · 15/03/2017 11:23

OP, how are you? Hope it all went well...

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LovelyUnicorn83 · 16/03/2017 18:15

Hi sorry for late reply. We talked alot and we're back together. Hes moving his stuff back in this weekend. Im going to book a midwife appt tomorrow so get that in order.

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RandomMess · 16/03/2017 18:55

I hope things work out, and he'll be the most hands on Dad to all the DC ever!!!

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