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I wont take my bra off

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SammieSalmon · 11/02/2017 22:07

Im in a new relationship. Ds is 13 months old and my boobs havent been great since. Theyre saggy
Anyway i dont like them so i wont take my bra off during sex. New man is starting to ask why hes never seen my boobs. How do i get over this?

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Whatthefreakinwhatnow · 13/02/2017 12:20

oh massive XP Dieu, sorry!

PyongyangKipperbang · 13/02/2017 12:26

You know that joke .... Man asks his mate "What was the worst blow job you have ever had like?" and his mate says "Fucking fantastic!" ? Well boobs are like that to men.

He is not going to sit and judge them and give them marks out of 10, he just wants to get his hands on them! That they might not be as perky as they used to be is not going to be an issue for him at all.

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SammieSalmon · 13/02/2017 13:21

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Sugarpiehoneyeye · 13/02/2017 13:31

Like HUSKY and TRIM said, men like boobs in general, but they love nipples ! Have a quick Gin Sammy, and fling the bra 😄

pudding21 · 13/02/2017 13:36

You said you go to the gym, do you bench press? You should, its done wonders for my boobs that were sucked dry by two hungry boys :)

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SammieSalmon · 19/02/2017 14:12

So he's seen my boobs and asked me why I hate them! He didn't seem bothered at all!

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Lushka · 19/02/2017 14:21

Congratulations on being brave!

Kikikaakaa · 19/02/2017 15:32

I don't think mine are great, what's happened to mine is that they are soooo far apart, so there is no cleavage, most tops and bras I end up with one big uni-boob because tight tops I try to wear just show off the huge gap on the middle (they flop out to the side) but no man has ever commented on anything except 'hmm booooobs' and they just like boobs, no matter what they look like.
But maybe really pretty bras would help you feel confident? I sometimes wear a sheer neglige thingy as I hate my tummy too, and I still feel sexy

robinia · 19/02/2017 15:34

Well done.
Even from a heterosexual female point of view, all boobs are a turn on

Trills · 19/02/2017 15:35

Well done - how do you feel now?

Sugarpiehoneyeye · 19/02/2017 16:47

That's good to hear Sammie. Hope you're feeling more confident now. 😀

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SammieSalmon · 19/02/2017 19:39

I do feel better. He wasnt bothered about them being saggy. I was worrying for nothing

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Trills · 19/02/2017 21:35

Glad to hear it :)

Ellisandra · 19/02/2017 21:58

Well done for telling him, and for braving it

clumsyduck · 19/02/2017 22:03

Ah well done op
Before I read as far as your update I was thinking he honestly won't care hel just be happy to see your boobs

BillyButtfuck · 19/02/2017 22:07

DP didn't see my boobs for a whole year

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