I have been with my GF for nearly 4 years, we don't live together (there 3-5 nights a week) and she does not wish to her being relatively wealthy, house paid good divorce settlement 1/2 his substantial pension. I have my own business and am comfortable.
Question throughout our relationship she has always out the blue dumped me on a 6 monthly cycle. It starts with a few criticisms or if I buy new clothes is that for the other woman to being dumped out of the blue usually by txt. This has caused massive jolts, I have a good relationship with her children especially her youngest daughter who is a similar age to my own and I miss her and my partner. A friend of mine who is being badly abused by her ex (a real low life of us males) suggests this is an abusive relationship? I normally do the running lets talk focus on the many plus points to our relationship and we get back together, this time I am applying a no contact approach and deleting her from my life. I love her but feel her behaviour is unacceptable. Thoughts please....