He's not had a job for 2 years he does no housework and is a miserable spiteful bully to me and the kids and to top it off is always "too tired" for sex.
I have disabilities and am the sole breadwinner in the house. I want to leave. I need to leave. I hate this house and I hate this area and it's why I will leave not expect him to.
The final straw was today. We went out for lunch, I said we had a budget (money is tight) and can we stick to £x a head please when looking at the menu (more than manageable for the place we were eating at). He decides to go for something twice the price meaning I have to cut back on my meal in order to be able to afford it. He does this all the time. Shopping, I'm making savings and he's merrily spending like it's water. I'm sick of it.
Even with all this I CAN'T BLOODY LEAVE! It should be easy but it's really not. The prospect of being on my own with all my health issues and sole carer of the kids is terrifying me!
Can I get a pep talk please?