Or who faslifht? For exampme if i dont like something my dad says i cannot disagree with him as get stone walled or yelled at. If ge disagrees with me i get a lwcture or rant.
Politics is another difficilt area. We on opposite political sides anf it causes tension.
The gaslighting too. If i pull my dad up on something ge said or did which upset me, he will deny it ever gappened.