Really want SIL to FUCK OFF

[CanIHaveYourNumberCucumber]

Short story is that I am NC with brother and his wife.

Had rather traumatic experience of SEN 9yo DS trying to hang himself at school and SIL is bitching about me/him to my cousin. He won't tell his wife half of what was said as it was too horrible, but the gist was horrible in itself.

So what will make her FUCK OFF and leave us alone?

You can't stop people bitching. She isn't bothering you directly I assume?

Avoid whoever told you what she had been saying to cousin.

If it was me and someone told me about a sad thing like that I wouldn't repeat it to anyone.

It was my DM that told me. If she had known and had not told me, I would have been angry as in the past they have been talking about me behind my back and it was awful.

Cousin passed it on because they are disgusted at SIL for being such a bitch and at Brother for being so pathetic never sticking up for his sister.

I suppose I was just venting yesterday. I have enough going on already without her adding to it, however indirectly.