How did you save your relationship?

[Winniethepooer]

18 years & 4dc.
Lots of issues SN dc. No family. Xero support etc...

We're not close anymore in any respect.
How do you save a relationship?

What did you actually do?
How did you know it was the thing to do instead of splitting up?

Thanks.

Can you try counselling which may help identify what you each feel and want for the future?

Thankyou for replying.
Dp isn't keen on counselling. He really struggles to 'talk'. I would be more then happy to go.

I know what i want in thr future.
Dp has no long term plan, goals etc.