Ex and self harm

[onanotherday]

Ok had an argument over money...now he's threatening self harm. He is BPD...but now lives abroad. I know I should ignore...but one day he may finally kill himself and dc's would be devastate. Sorry need to tell someone as no one on RL. Thanks

I'm also BPD, but if he's threatening to harm himself when you're arguing about money then he's attempting to manipulate you.

Thank you....he's managed too!!

I feel helpless trying to co-parent is hard. I've been sympathetic for years. ..but his choices have caused real pain.