Was I emotionally abused by a friend to whom I sacrificed pretty much everything - or not?

[frenemy]

Hello there - the fully story is way too link for Mumsnet so I posted it in reddit too - but it's you guys whom I really interested in hearing from.

I hope it's ok to post a link here nr.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/5mq9xx/36_mf_emotionally_abused_controlled_and/

This did happen a couple of years ago but as I struggled with my Dad's death for a year - I keep on thinking about it.

The TL;DR version; I ignored a text from a ex- friend whose dead baby I delivered, five days before the first anniversary of her Dad's death - as I felt she had emotionally manipulated and controlled me for year - was I BU?

What an appalling story. She sounds awful and yes I guess you could call it EA - you were certainly manipulated and bullied.
I hope you find the strength to remain NC with this woman and take some solace in the knowledge that found the courage to end this toxic relationship for good.