Luckily I'm going to have near enough the same wage as if I was working whilst on maternity.....so although I could do with the money, I don't desperately need it.
They did say that if all goes well, il be paid within 6 weeks, however to me that's a fucking joke!
Il apply as soon as I've put the child Benefit claim in & probably not expect any money for 9 months minimum.
However, if the ex has any sense, he'll pay up.....otherwise he'll have to cover the arrears too & that'll seriously piss him off.
If he wants to play the game of who gets the last laugh, by all means he can crack on....we know who'll be getting that!
He can't bear to pay money out that he doesn't feel is necessary.....but, he's the kind of guy who gets worried about things & the fact that I told him that if he messed around with payments, he'll have arrears, charges & court fees thrown on as well as his monthly payment & could end up owing thousands.
The prospect of the above scared him!
So hopefully the man child will simply accept he's the father & make payments from his next pay day.
If he thought me emailing his boss was bad, he hasn't a sodding clue what CMS are legally entitled to do!
Considering the department he works in deals with his wages, it won't look good on him when his boss gets a lovely letter from CMS asking to take £200 a month from his money as he hasn't bothered!
Oooooh what fun!
Yep, I'm being quite smug right now lol....he thinks he got it all sorted!!