Sorry if the title sounds harsh, but I really am at my wits end with my partner. We have a 2 year old son and he is doing a very intensive university course (which I don't want him to fail), these two things are pretty much what are keeping me with him at the moment. We live with my parents at the moment which only makes things more unbearable.
My partner constantly does irritating and illogical things, and is so stubborn that he will not listen to anybody who tries to tell him why it is illogical or stupid.
For a few examples, in the last couple of months he has:
- Repeatedly used bleach to clean the bath (despite being told by both myself and my mother not to do so). The bath now needs re-enamelling which will cost around £400.
- Continuously putting hangers on the picture rails, even though I have told him it leaves marks on the wall.
- We are currently having to sleep on a blow up bed, and rather than putting the blow up bed behind the sofa each day to create space, he insists on letting the air out and re-blowing it up each night.
- Picks his nose and the dead skin off his foot despite me saying how gross and unattractive it makes him seem.
These are only some of the many examples of things that he does that irritate me. My family all think he is hopeless and annoying
. It has got to the point where everything he does really gets on my nerves. I don't want to sound like a b, but we have no sex life, he was addicted to porn at one point and I just feel like there is nothing left for me to be happy about in our relationship. So much so that every little thing he does annoys me.
Has anybody got a partner like this?