well blow me over ...... had a bit of news that knocked me a bit but made me count my lucky stars that I left my ex when I did.
Turns out the woman he lived with( after I threw him out as he was carrying on with her) put up with him for 27 years . During that time he had more affairs and fathered 2 more children with 2 different women. Throughout this she supported him financially as he did not work once we split up. She is very bitter but she wanted him . I do feel a little sorry for her but hey she should have kept away from a married man with kids.
she finally got fed up and threw him out and he died a year later .