Sorry, but I'm fed up to the back teeth of men who say they're ok with kids and then when I say how old dd is firstly say that it's ok, send a couple more messages then ghost me. I didn't had dd til I was 34, and she's almost 14 now. I never contact blokes who say they don't want kids or say that they have no ties so are looking for time away with someone, and I mention her age usually fairly early on (i.e. before a meet up). It's getting to me that she's been viewed as an 'inconvenience' - imagine how the blokes would have felt if someone had said that about them at that age?
Sorry, I just needed to get this out there, and please don't flame me because I know I'me being unreasonable, I'm just lonely and fed up of being on my own with no one there for me at the end of the day or for me to be there for them. Few women would say to a bloke having a 14 yr old dd was an inconvenience because they wouldn't expect her to be there all the time. I just hate the hypocrisy and unfairness between single mums and single dads.