There's an OW. Would you want to know and if so how?

[Helloyou4]

All in the title...

Ok. So my friend wants me to contact the OW to find more info. Because I know the OW, vaguely. And I'm not sure how I feel about it. I want her to just find prove and then it's over with rather than meddling with the OW and contacting etc.

*find proof

All my friends knew, he'd asked 2 of them out. So now no H and no friends as I don't trust any of them

I think you're far too over involved in this.

So yes I'd want to know

I'd want to know don't care how but with solid proof

What proof is sufficient though?

Poor you newbrummie, I am still married to a similar kind of asshole and disappointed with people in general.

I'd want to know.

chiquita1 make it work for you. There's only one thing worse than being married to them and that's not being married to them but still having to deal with them. One of my friends is seriously waiting for her arsehole to die because it's easier than divorcing him

Yes if proof was provided.

Yes I'd want to know. I wouldn't care how, but I would want proof/evidence (or enough information, dates, times, details, so that I could prove or disprove the allegation myself with that info).

I would want to know. I found out about OW (although I already knew there was one) when my ex-h "accidentally" text me instead of her. It turned out that she was the last in a long long line of OW's, nobody was immune from his approaches either, not even his own BIL's (my brother) fiancee. Nobody needs to be married to twat like that. It's a disease.

Your friend is the DW?

What proof does she want?