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I say "I'm Busy" His reply "Doing what?"

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ThPrincess · 05/12/2016 22:13

I am dating and single, I have had this issue now with 3 different males.
I say I am busy and they question me, if I try brush it off they will try to continue badger me to get an answer.
It is irritating and it is guys I have been on one date with and only spoken to a couple times.
Latest guy I have known for 5 days, went out on one date was great but today I said I cannot meet him as I wont be in until late and I am busy and his reply is doing what, he phones me and keeps messaging me asking what time we can do something after.

I am not being a bitch right?
I dont want to be rude and say its not your business but it is annoying me, why do these men think they get to question me its like they think I dont see other guys (although that was not why I am was busy today)

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Walkacrossthesand · 05/12/2016 22:20

I wonder if they're trying to 'lovebomb' you and sweep you off your feet in order to dump you when you get invested and you being busy isn't in their script!! Hehe. You carry right on, princess - date timing and pace is a mutually agreed thing, if they don't like that they can move right on.

jeaux90 · 05/12/2016 22:28

Move on; they sound like nobs! X

DioneTheDiabolist · 05/12/2016 22:33

I say "I'm busy".
His reply, "Doing what?"
My reply would be "Stuff".

If I tell someone that I am busy, as opposed to telling them what I'll actually be doing, then they can take my answer or leave it.

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