Husband dream left me

[Msqueen33]

Last night I had a dream my dh left me plus a whole host of other random bits to the dream which included a big market. Dh was only planning on giving me £300 a month for the kids and I was worried as I'm a sahm to two Sen kids. I actually felt sad whereas mostly at the moment he's driving me crazy and I'm restraining myself from saying all that I want to say because we'll have a huge argument.

Anyway...any other weird dreamers?!

Hah, yes - DH leaving me seems to be my brain's default 'I'm stressed and need to get it out of my system somehow' distraction dream. I once dreamt we'd been attacked by Uruk Hai and he'd got into a car with Wolverine and driven off without me, leaving me to be devoured by the monsters.

Then there was the dream where I caught him cheating and he was utterly gleeful about it - proper smug showing off.

It's happened often enough that I've learned to say nothing until I've calmed down, listened to some music, rationalised a bit and can talk about it as a daft/funny thing, not a hint of blame involved.

However - DH doesn't usually drive me mad and I'm not usually trying to restrain myself from throttling him! So what's he doing to make you miserable?

I've had the leaving us dream too - I was hurt and angry with him all day. Even though you now it's a dream, still makes you feel crap!

I have weird dreams all the time. Sometimes DP leaves or cheats on me which leaves me with a horrible feeling when I wake up.

I've also had a dream where DP and I are spies and we have a secret mission to complete!

I had a dream mine left me last night too.... In the middle of a really crowded car park at a festival, and took the car as well!

(We don't have a car. DH hates festivals. And hopefully has no plans to leave me.)