Soon to be 19.
Returned from her dad's yesterday where they'd been for a family party. She'd gone crazy at their step mum who had shouted at my ds (11). She'd entered into a screaming match and stormed out and brought him home plus their db 17.
Our house isn't shouty, I deal with matters differently, always have.
Tonight I've come home late from work to hear her saying how awful the boys have been and how big one has kicked little one so hard in stomach he cried so she went "mental".
According to boys, they were play fighting, big one overdid it, then they made up.
She has screamed the house down at them, told them to get out etc.
In her relaying this to me, I pointed out the obvious similarity to the situation with her step mum yesterday.
I've been yelled at and now she's stormed out to her boyfriends and I've cried in front of my sons.
I really don't know how to manage the situation. She never ever apologises or backs down and that's perhaps my fault, I've missed something along the way but we have fairly frequent flair ups like this and I don't know how to handle them anymore...
Just looking for a shoulder to cry on really. My dh just tiptoes round me when I'm upset with her...