Hello, my partner isn't close to his family as his mum has a temper and can get abusive towards other members of the family but never has towards my partner. His mum and his nan are two peas in a pod and tries to make my partner pick sides against other members of his family and always start family dramas which is way he never spends anytime with them. I have always been polite to everyone but his nan has now lost her husband and now texts me all the time, if I respond she then textes me moaning about family members. I don't want to be put in the middle of thier family drama, especially when my partner does bother with them. Do you think it's rude if I stop texting her back?