I seem to have developed a huge crush on a female friend I work with
Ashamed to admit I think about her all the time and am probably a bit obsessed
I should add I am gay and happily married (to a woman). My crush is straight and has no idea how I feel.
My questions are:
if you realised a female friend had a crush on you would you feel disgusted and horrified? Or would it not bother you? (assuming you are straight).
How do I get over this?
I wish I could avoid her for a while but not an option as we are good friends and sit near each other.
Obviously I haven't done anything but I feel like I have betrayed my partner by having these thoughts.
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daimbar · 04/11/2016 21:10
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