ok. so there was this picture on Facebook of my husband whilst he was away working, and something about his body language with another woman made me look into his Facebook messages…..
SO there it all is. Nothing directly incriminating but pretty obvious something had happened, but not ongoing. There are clearly very close, with "strong chemistry" between them. She lives abroad. She later (months later) goes on to say she has a date to which my husband's reply was "jealous". I also found a confirmation booking for an erotic massage on the evening that one of these conversations took place.
God I am in shock. We haven't been close for years now, so I guess it should be no surprise he goes elsewhere, but even so, I'm really shocked and confused.
What do I do now????