Fallen in love...with a *lady*!!! Would you support me to go for it?

[LadyLuckyLady]

Around 3 years ago I met an incredible woman through work. She is, in short, fab.

In January this year I asked my H for a divorce as I realised he treated me & our girls badly, and it was getting worse...it was really abusive & controlling, just not physically so.

My feelings for her have never altered, but now seem possible. I've just managed to tell the woman in question how I feel and...she feels it too! She's lived in LTR with women before and is slightly older than me (fifty something to my forty something).

I love her I love her I love her! Do I do this? How difficult will it be when I've previously been known as part of a hetero couple? Life just seems too short to let such a good fit pass me by - after all, we're both grown ups! And both feeling the love!

I don't know her username so you're out of luck there that and she'd be mortified beyond belief.. although, it could be you whaaat, who knows?!?

Eisfor, damn I've wanted someone to be secretly besotted with me for a while

I did it 3 years ago. No regrets. Very very happy!! Have a child from my previous shit relationship and my DS and DP adore each other.
Do it!! Go on, go on, go on!!

whaaaaat are you early 40s with dark hair and green eyes? If so you could be the lucky lady who I could be constantly thinking about f*** senseless, who knows

ahem

Eisfor, I do have dark hair and green eyes, but I'm early 30's.....It's probably still me

...you'll do, get in

Haha, I'm so flattered. Nobody's ever said that to me before

whaaaat this is why I can't be trusted to tell her I have no tact whatsoever. I'll end up making a complete tool of myself and she will hate me forever. But on the other hand, the love between me and you is obviously destined to be I'll pick you up at 6 cough wear something tight cough

Errrrm....where the hell were you?! I waited and waited and nothing. I was standing there, not very comfortably I might add, in my black, PVC body suit, feeling like a fool. Like a FOOL!

"Forever"?! I know nothing of love anymore. Nothing.

But seriously Eisfor, is it definitely not something you can tell her?

Where has the OP gone btw?

PVC?! I thought I heard something squeaking in the distance

No, I can't tell her. I don't think she's attracted to women, and even if she was she wouldn't pick me. She already thinks I'm a bit of a muppet without me casually telling her I would quite like to strip her darn and blast!

The OP may have run off in ladylove bliss..

Eisfor, you said tight!!

How do you know she thinks you're a muppet?

You when how you can just tell when someone looks at you and sighs internally, as if it to say "you are such a tit". That's how in all seriousness though, she's too good for me anyway.

Never mind, that's what alcohol is for

Awww You only think she's too good for you because you're so besotted. Is she someone you work with? A friend?....Both?

Both but luckily I don't see her all that regularly

How long have you known her?

A couple of years so not all that long