Ok am steaming mad at the moment having been told by sbxh that he has others to pay as well as me and kids. So will just pay under half what he should
... and has been out of work/country for last 9 months and paid nothing. Since he left 4 years ago dribs and drabs..mainly due to his MH. But I can't take this much more...
I know i have to suck it up. Hes walked away from huge debt...put all in my name as he was a student....left us really strughling and i have no family to speak of or credit to help. But what has begun to hit home is the abuse we want through. I know I should move on but it's times like this it hurts the most!!
Now i see that towards the end he was abusive and has since been diagniosed with personality disorder and bipolar. .
Sorry for rant but watching kids sleeping on matresses on cold concert floors is hard especially after a 20 year marriage. I'm so very greatful for our little council house but feel vengeful at times...reporting the abuse will help no on now....thanks for listening. ...will plod on😕