another bad night

[chippybutty]

I can't sleep.
So unhappy.
Marriage a mess. So many problems.
He only likes small talk, nothing difficult- ignores me or shouts if we have a disagreement. Can't discuss anything in a civil way. So fed up.
Feel so depressed.

Hi chippybutty, have you told him how much his emotional detachment is affecting you? Hope your ok

Hi. Thanks for replying. Yes, I've told him many times. I don't think he can change.
We've been together a long time. Even when he's doing his best, he still has no idea how I want to be treated. It's awful. :-(.