Hi everyone, I'm in a bit of a dilemma...my husband and I have been together for 16 years and we have a 15 month old. He left 2 months ago saying he was unhappy. He then screamed at me a couple of days later that he didn't love me anymore. I had started to get over it and move on a bit with my life. He has then said that he cares for me, loves me but isn't in love with me, loves me but can't be with me to he doesn't know. In this time he has also filed for divorce and we were due to start mediation next week.
Anyway, he started texting asking if I needed anything for he baby and this progressed to doing the lawn, clearing the garage etc. I politely declined and have been in minimal contact since he left and kept the conversations around our son.
A couple of days ago I got a text from him saying he's made a huge mistake and wants to come home?
I have completely lost trust and feel that there may be an alterior motive here. Life obv wasn't what he thought it would be like, he thought he would be able to come round all the time to visit our son. I refused as he had threatened to call social servs because I had cried in front of our son (he has since apologised for this). He has moved into a rented house in a rough area and has literally thrown himself into work so not exactly embraced single life. A few weeks ago he said he'd never seen me look so good!
Anyone else reconciled when their husband filed for divorce and if so how did it go? My heart wants to say yes but my head is telling me I'm better off on my own