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When will it get easier?

4 replies

30MinuteNap · 06/09/2016 14:42

Split with my Ex a week ago and I'm feeling really down about it, I ended it because there seemed to be nothing between us anymore and we were arguing a lot.

When does it get easier?

OP posts:

ChristinaParsons · 06/09/2016 14:45

A little bit every day

Mybeardeddragonjustdied2016 · 06/09/2016 14:49

Write a list detailing all the rows you had. Whenever you miss him read your list.

Make a bucket list of things you want to do and get cracking!

TheNaze73 · 06/09/2016 16:36

I think it'll get a tiny bit better every day OP. Have you gone NC? How did he take the split?

ALaughAMinute · 06/09/2016 16:53

Write a list detailing all the rows you had. Whenever you miss him read your list.

This is what I did and every time I miss him or reminisce over the good times I go back and read my list (that I've got stored in my phone) and it reminds me what a nasty controlling bastard he was and why I had to leave him. I left him two months ago and it's getting easier every day. Hang on in there. Happy days are ahead.

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