Best OLD sites for kinky people?

[goldensolait]

Not sure what section to post this under but after having some relationships ending because of a mismatch in the bedroom, I think it's for the best I stop dating in the 'regular' pond and go for someone that I know straight up has similar tastes as my own. What are the best sites to go for? I have never done any sort of OLD before but willing to give it a go. Any other pearls of wisdom regarding safety?

British Spanking used to have a good Personals section, alongside a thriving message board and chat room - I assume it still does. They also have organised munches and parties.

I've met some great people on there - no relationships (that wasn't what I was after) but some amazing friends.

Craigslist can have some interesting possibilities...You have to be able to weed out the fakers and pic collectors tho.