Hardly a relationship issue but needed a small rant.
Had a lot happen to me in last year husband left me, went no contact with my DM and SD after an inccident where they were pretty horrible to me, with regards to my sons behaviour (there was a thread on here about it, where my two year old son didn't want to play and they flipped out at him shouted at him and calling me a bad mother) turns out my son is on the Autism spectrum and can't handle people invading his personal space so would meltdown, never had an apology etc, pretty toxic people to say the least so cut ties.
Anyway, over the last few months I have been hearing from my direct next door neighbours (who are lovely ) that the nosey old trout opposite us has been using my marriage breakdown (and most horrendous time of my life) as the streets gossip fodder.
No one has told her this information she just spends her entire day snooping out of her window and has put two and two together.
Just bumped into her and she said ooh I haven't seen your DM for a long time, is she alright?
I just said yes she is fine and carried on walking.
When I really wanted to say " None of your F*cking business, as if I am going to tell you anything about my life so you can spend your afternoon standing on your door step telling all the other old gossips who have absolutely nothing better to do!"
I am so angry that people would stoop this low and think it's perfectly acceptable to use horrible times in someone's life as some sort of entertainment.
