Been with H since teens for 20 years, I've just woken up and realised that it's not a healthy relationship. Subtle ways but sulking mainly " not enough sex, it's boring" is current sulk, questioning whether I'm having an affair (I'm not) , being vile inter mixed with him being just lovely.
We have a house and 2 dc, where do I start in terms of a separation? Is it as complicated as I fear. I really worry about the financial side who do I get advice from? I need my practical head on but I can't think straight at the moment😯