First post, so be gentle, thanks.
Been in relationship with a guy for over 2 years and I thought things were good between us. We had a rocky patch a couple of weeks ago and I told him I was leaving to let him think about our relationship. I was almost out the door when he stopped me and told me he didn't want me to leave. Actually cried. So I thought we were ok.
Stayed at his house a couple of nights ago and something's not right. So in the morning I looked at his phone and discovered loads of very explicit texts between him and a woman I don't know. Doesn't look like it's gone any further though.
He's done this once before which is why I was suspicious. I didn't say anything at the time as I wanted time to think.
I texted him last night to ask if I could see him at the weekend. But so far I've had no reply.
I will speak to him and ask him for the truth (then dump him) but what about the other woman? I've got her phone number. Do I let her know what he's like or let her carry on and he'll probably do the same to her eventually?