We've had a difficult time in our relationship since our son arrived. He's nearly three. My oh found it difficult to adapt to family life once I went back.to work, despite little one being planned. Sex has been irregular to say the least and things have been strained as we seemed to have stopped communicating. We have also recently been through job changes and bought our house which all added to the stress. Things came to a head a few months ago and after lots of tears and frustration we were able to clear the air and agreed to work on it. Making more time for each other (hard as no family close by to help) and focusing on our relationship ie. Sex life. Things were slowly feeling better, he agreed that they had improved then I found out I was pregnant. Not the best timing but both pleased after getting over the shock. I still had a niggling feeling and today, I know is shouldn't but I snooped on his tablet. I am devastated , I'm now 8 weeks pregnant and he has booked an escort to come to our house when I am away visiting family next week. He also booked same girl back in march. He continually complains we have no money to do anything but now he can spend £200 on that and in my house! I feel sick, if it wasn't for my little ones I would have walked this morning. How on earth do I confront him, he's due home in less than an hour and its all I can do not to fall apart in front of my little boy.