Did I do something wrong really ?

[Pisssssedofff]

So met this guy, tinder, rolls eyes. Had a good night on Friday I'll spare you the details. He text me on Saturday morning but no plans made to see me again, all pleasant though.
So I get messages through from some other guy who I respond to not in a dirty or even flirty way tbh.
First guy sent me a copy of these messages through today, calling me a player, saying trust is a big thing for him and I can't be trusted. I'm trying to decide if I'm a complete fuck up or if I did nothing wrong.

I've lost count of the number of bloody first dates I've had where the evening goes brilliantly and I never hear from them again. I think I've become a total cynic.

Wait, so it was the first guy catfishing you???

Lucky escape.

And no, you did nothing wrong. One shag does not a boyfriend make.

He says not, that he was just comparing matches with a mate - sounds like a crock of shit doesn't it ?

So he got his mate to send you messages to test you after one date and he has the nerve to talk about trust!

He's a scary bastard is what he is and I hope you didn't have him in your house or tell him where it is. Block him and move on.

And no you did nothing wrong. Who the fuck commits to anyone after one tinder date?

I spent the last hour apologising then the penny dropped and I'm like what the fuck

Oh please. That's shite. He had a copy of the messages. Blokes don't send each other copies of their Tinder messages.

Apologising for what??

You did nothing wrong. I think it's lucky he showed his true colours early on - saved you wasting any more time on someone who clearly has deep seated issues.

Tell him he's a creepy fucker and you'll be telling everyone that knows him. Did you have any mutual FB friends?

Sounds like a set up to me, by a spineless player who's seen you as a one & done & has either got another profile or a friend to do his dirty work.
Can understand your cynicism & I know some people have success on Tinder but, are you fishing in the wrong pool? All the single guys at work who use Tinder, have dates & shags coming out of their ears (not literally) and none of them are serious or more importantly, want anything serious. One guy, who is by know means Hugh Hefner & I do trust what he says, has slept for 5 different woman in a fortnight. Maybe try a specific relationship dating sight??
Good luck OP

I honestly think I've lost sight of what's normal any more I'm not cut out for all this im really not

You had a lucky escape, I think.

I hope he doesn't now contact you (as himself) to "offer you another chance" either.

Run like the wind if he does.

He got his mate to message you to see how you'd respond ..he's massive bellend and you need to block the pair of them

I have blocked both ...,I wouldn't mind but he wasn't even my dream boy anyway. Why do I attract these people ?

Meh, there's just that many of them unfortunately. Adjust your radar a touch and get back out there. Your gut is your best indicator so listen to it if it even flutters.

You've done absolutely nothing wrong so please stop apologising immediately.

Now you've blocked him, put him out of your mind. I would get off tinder and try another saying site as it is renowned for blokes wanting to shag.

So you have to stop dating after one date with him. Scary red flag. Should have just told him if he liked it then he should've put a ring on it and beyonce'd away.

Pmsl Granny ☺️
Awww thanks I'm having a right day, resigned from my job, as was misold it. Set free by the loon 🙄

Look at it as a good day. You have dodged two shitty bullets and allowed yourself the chance for two much better opportunities

This is true. PMA ☺️