This might be a long one but I really need someone to talk to about this, me and my oh met in 2010, I fell pregnant very early on (about 2 months) I went on holiday when I was a few weeks pregnant and he ended up breaking up with me over it as he wasn't happy about it, anyway 6 months into my pregnancy he asked me to move in with him, I said no as we weren't together and was arguing a lot and I didn't want to move in with someone just because I was pregnant, anyway when my dd was born we decided to give it a go and it was ok until I gave birth to our twins in 2014, I broke up with him as I was on a path of self destruction and I pushed him away, looking back I think I had pnd but was in denial at the time so never got any help, we spent a year apart and in that time he met lots of other women, he moved one in he had met once, yes once! They lived together for 3 months, anyway after a year me and him decided we still loved each other and decided to give it another go, he only told me about the other woman living with him because it slipped out as he only ever saw the kids at mine, he has a 3 bed house and rents out all the rooms so there was never any space, anyway after a month I find out one of the people living in his house is another woman again but this time just renting, anyway I wasn't too happy about it and it did make me feel uncomfortable but I tried to be ok with it as we were only just back together, but then he would tell me things like she walks round in just a towel, she jokes about her vibrator they would smoke together in the garden and how his friends have said should just sleep with her! She was there 6 months before she moved out. He told me after that he would never rent a room out to a woman again, so for the last year there has been 3 men there, they are all leaving this month and I made it very clear I think we should live together as we now have 3 kids and it's been 6 years, he makes out that because I said no in the beginning that he would never live with me, so a week ago I was at his house and he proposed to me but I basically said I wouldn't marry him whilst we don't live together, I knew he already had people lined up for the rooms, so we were talking and I said "your not moving in a woman are you" to which he said no, anyway on Monday we were lying in bed when the door bell rang, then his house mate shouted "it's Gabriella" so obviously I look at him, he jumps up and leaves the room making sure to shut the door, so I stand by the door and hear the woman ask if he will be in all day and she mentions keys, so his renting the room out to a woman again, now obviously I was fuming as he sat in my face and lied, I got ready and left and told him it was over, would other people be ok with their partner living with another woman But not them?? he kept asking me if I was jealous so I just want to know if other people would be ok with it?