Feel a bit weird about this.
I had a message on POF 2 days ago from a guy called, let's say, James. I recognised him as a creep who'd sent me a message on Tinder saying he wanted a woman he could "destroy" so I called him on it (stupidly.)
He replied asking did I not want to be destroyed then, which I obviously ignored. The next day I got a message from "Sam" saying, "James is just such a nice guy isn't he?" and picking up loads of things about my profile in a way that made me uncomfortable.
Today I've had another from "Phil." "Are you still in contact with James? He's a nice guy isn;t he?" Again commenting creepily on stuff in my profile. I do not like this. I feel like I'm the butt of some joke and that "James" a fucking nutcase getting his mates to send me weird messages. Should I email POF? Or just delete my account?