AAAAARRRRRGGGGGHHHHHH!
For the love of god what the absolute fuck did I ever do in life to deserve this fuck wit of a STBXH.
I can't kick him out cos divorce isn't final and he's doing this whole 'I'm not going to move out cos it's all half my stuff'.
Anyway, I spoke to HMRC and ended the joint claim and started a single claim for CTC. So the renewal forms for the joint claim have come through and we have to do one each.
I am owed money from last tax year but HMRC can't process paying me until STBXH submits his.
He has been putting it off for weeks and I have continually asked for his government gateway login details and he just keeps refusing to do it.
Tonight it ended in a row, and - to my shame - I ended up calling him a cunt. And he called me names too.
I'm just so annoyed and frustrated by him.
He says unbelievable things and is so horrible.
For example: I was supposed to be going on holiday on Monday with my 2 DC but Dd fell and broke her leg. The stupid fucker has told me today that her leg is a 'blessing really. Cos you didn't get to go on holiday which is great cos I was so worried as you can't possibly cope with them both alone so it's a blessing really'
I mean WTF. Who says that?!?
He gets to me and 90% of the time I manage not to respond but sometimes he really gets to me.