It's been almost 7 years... I've met one or two guys, been talked into one or two dates, but honestly - I don't feel like I'm ever going to get anywhere close to another relationship... I'm too damn scared 
There must be quite a few people in the same situation? How do you think they cope/get past their fears and insecurities? Or if it's you who has been there - how are you getting on? Is there any hope for me?
Tia xx