Dating help

[christina2701]

Hi all! So I've been on 2 dates with a guy who seems really nice. Both dates pretty easy suppose to meet tonight but unfortunely can't do tonight. He messaged me last night asking if I wanted to go over to his instead. I politely declined as I've only meet him twice and wouldn't be comfortable with that.. so we're meeting later in the week. Question is have I blown it because I didn't go round?

If he has been put off by that then he doesn't respect your boundaries so you wouldn't have blown anything/he isn't worth it.

It's only 2 dates in, relax and stick to what you are comfortable with.

You're overthinking it. If anything the fact that you didn't go round there at his beck and call will probably make him more keen. That said, he seems pretty keen already!

Nope, if you've blown it, it would only be because he's looking for a booty-call not a potential relationship.

My most successful relationships have always been the ones where we waited to have sex (and in which I didn't act like a pleaser).