Whenever DH gets tired he gets in an absolutely foul mood, speaks to me like crap and is just generally horrible to live with. It's always aimed at me as he's fine with the kids but is snappy and uncommunicative with me.
He does things like makes out he hasn't heard me speaking, grunts in reply to me or ignores me, and snaps at me over everything.
He's been awful today, apparently he didn't get enough sleep last night, and I've had enough. He just snapped at me again and I asked why he is being so awful and he gave me a horrible sneering look and said 'What ARE you talking about?'. He always tries to gaslight me into thinking it's me that's in the bad mood!
I have just said to him that each time he's in a mood from now on then I will be in a worse mood. He ignored me but then a few minutes later went off to bed and tried to kiss me but I turned my head away and ignored him. It's making me hate spending time with him!
BTW, as I'm sure someone will ask, we both work full time. I also do the majority of the housework and childcare, and run a business part time from home.